Joseph Pandolfi

Retired Judge
When Divorce Mediation Won't Work: Abuse, Narcissism, and High-Conflict Cases
Mediation is becoming the preferred method of resolving a divorce. But is it the best option for every case? ... READ MORE

What if I Don't Agree With the Divorce Judge's Ruling?
If you and your spouse can't settle your divorce, the odds are that you'll end up in trial, where a judge will issue several rulings, including a final judgment. Learn more about what to do if you disagree with any of the court's decisions. ... READ MORE

How Long Does It Take to Get the Final Divorce Judgment After a Trial?
Learn more about a final judgment of divorce and how soon can you expect to receive it. ... READ MORE

What Happens If My Spouse Lies in Divorce Court?
You would hope that distorting the truth in the course of a divorce would be a rare phenomenon. Unfortunately, it's not: Divorcing spouses often bend reality to serve their interests. But outright lying under oath is a crime that comes with serious consequences. ... READ MORE

Will There Be Witnesses at My Divorce Trial? Who Can Attend Divorce Court?
Divorce trials can be messy. It's bad enough you have to get on the stand and air your dirty laundry, but do you have to drag others in as well? ... READ MORE

Hearing for a Temporary Spousal Support Order During a Divorce
Divorce is a time of transition, which often brings anxiety about a number of issues, including finances. If you're unemployed or earn much less than your spouse, you may wonder how you'll pay your bills. That's when you may need to request temporary spousal support. Continue reading to learn how the process works. ... READ MORE

Types of Emergency Court Orders During Divorce
Sometimes, urgent and unexpected issues crop up during a divorce case. When this happens, spouses often turn to the courts for emergency relief. ... READ MORE

Why Is My Divorce Case Taking So Long?
If you feel like you're involved in the "never-ending divorce," you're not alone. The time it takes for contested divorces to reach conclusion is pretty much a universal complaint. Of course, knowing that you're one of many is a small consolation when your life is in turmoil. There are several possible reasons why a divorce case drags on. ... READ MORE

Can My Spouse Give or Loan Marital Assets to Family or Friends Before Filing for Divorce?
Learn what you can do if your spouse makes an unauthorized loan to family or friends. ... READ MORE

Do I Have to Appear or Testify at My Custody, Support, or Other Divorce Hearing?
If you and your spouse can't resolve your divorce-related issues, a court will schedule a hearing to consider both sides' arguments and make decisions. It's possible that a judge may allow you to skip a hearing, but that might not be the best strategy for your case. ... READ MORE